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Trust is a huge aspect of any type of relationship.  Without that vital piece of the puzzle, any type of relationship you find yourself in, friendship, romantic relationships, work relationships, etc., will not stand the test of time.  I have an incredibly memory so I remember way too many things about way too much crap.  If someone tells me something I expect it to be the truth and since I don’t often forget things people tell me, it often places me in rather difficult positions.  I am not one to trust easily so when that trust is breached, I am not one to forget and forgive.

A former “friend” of mine once told me “when you’re done, you’re done” and that holds true even today.  I will do everything within my power to be the best friend, confidante, lover, employee, daughter, sibling, etc. that I can possibly be.  However when I’m done, I’m done.

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Posted: May 22, 2013 in Dating..., My Life
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Posted: April 27, 2013 in Dating...
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Dating these days is a challenge to say the least.  It is extremely difficult to meet someone at work – most companies frown on colleagues dating – plus who has the time to socialize with the ever increasing workload most people have.

A lot of single people are not entirely truthful about themselves… it is, I guess, more interesting to be someone you’re not than someone you have to be on a daily basis. I get that, I really do. If I were to be someone I’m not, if only for a day… I believe I would be this ubber skinny, extremely wealthy, intelligent diva that doesn’t have to work…spending all my time getting my nails and toes done, my hair trimmed, shopping, hanging out all day with my clique, who like me are utterly fabulous…

Then reality sets in… even though it might be nice to fantasize about being someone I’m not… keeping up with the lies and trying to remember what you’ve said to whom…would be thoroughly exhausting. For all those people who are totally more interesting online than they are in person… be yourself. Be true to who you are. The people who truly matter will love the person you are, not the person you want to be…

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